'I would rather regret the things I’ve done than the things I haven’t done'said Lucille Ball and the time is now upon me to carry on where I left off before I entered the challenging world of child rearing. As I write this, the last chick, without any fuss, has happily flown the nest, the toilets are clean, the washing machine is now enjoying a three-day week and for some inexplicable reason Mr D has started doing his own ironing and as a consequence that longed for luxury of